Studio J

Can you imagine being 2?   . . . and feeling joy and belonging?  . . . with parents that understand play and exploration matter more than getting some dirt on your dress?    Who delight in what a funny, strange person you are?

You live in a place where two talented, thoughtful people have invested their personalities, their smarts, their creativity and their attitudes into making your world rich, fun, safe and loving.   Being 2 is amazing.    This is how remarkable people are made . . .

This is what it looks like to love, laugh, learn and develop your unique talents.   I frequently get this front row seat for an ongoing workshop series on how to be incredible parents.

No staged studio sets,  no “smile for the camera”,  no stereotyped image of what some marketer has defined as a happy family.   These are the real, quirky, natural photos I most love to capture.   When I look at them 5 years from now, I won’t say, “That’s so 2010″   –>  I’ll say,  “That’s so them”.

. . . and a slideshow video, showing part of the session:

This family’s closeness and their visible care and interest in each other are compelling and moving to me.  Janelle called me to arrange a family session as a gift for her dad.   A high school student, paying for and organizing a professional family lifestyle session because she knew it would be a meaningful gift for her dad and her family.   Wow.

At every turn, there were more happy surprises like that.   From the shared family inside jokes to their sense of fun, the undercurrent that each child is valued for their unique selves; to the open-hearted welcome and inclusiveness for the newest family member, Tracey.   This is Belonging.

Mallory, Courtney and Madison trekked into the bush, over hills, rocks and gullies – all in their sandals! – to create some sweet images for their mom.  I was completely impressed and appreciative that they were up for serious hiking and had the perfect attitude to get this done.   These 3 laugh easily together and show a natural closeness, without coaching.

Mallory used to go to Silverlake summer camp, where my daughter Kayla went.   . . . . yes, they’re still jumping in the cold lagoon before breakfast every morning!   Thanks for pulling this all together Mallory!

Courtney is at my old school – Brock.   I wish she could have experienced Alphie’s Trough, the best campus pub ever  ( a beautiful ski lodge style building in the woods on the Niagara escarpment ).   Sadly, they turned it into a faculty lounge ( Booooooo!!).   So glad Mallory nudged you into unleashing your hair Courtney!

Madison has a totally infectious grin and attitude.   She radiates good humour.   She could read a phone book and make me laugh.

A slideshow of their session: